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Parental Alienation Syndrome And Narcissism

Handling Parental Alienation Syndrome Tips and Advice

So a lot of the parents that I work with come to me because they've been cut off by an adult child or a teenager after divorce. They want to know, What do I say And the first thing that you have to do is really try to make it safe for your child to talk to your. It's the case of the divorce and the case of Parental Alienation Syndrome where your ex is actually poisoning your child against you. It's important that you not do anything to reinforce that.

So you don't want to talk about your ex in any kind of a negative way, but to talk to them in an as affectionate way as possible, even though you may have to fake it. You want to remember that their love for their mother or their father, your ex, is part of the ways that they love themselves. So if you're poisoning them about their mother or their father, you're poisoning them about themselves. This is crucial to remember. So many parents feel like they're going to get back at their exes by getting mad at the kid through the ex and you're just.

Hurting your child. Not only are you hurting your child, you're hurting your relationship to the child. You're ruining your credibility with that child by making them feel like you care more about yourself than you do about them. They need to love that parent no matter how terribly that parent has behaved. So that's the case of Parental Alienation Syndrome. You want to be affectionate, interested, empathic, hear their complaints. If the kids says, Well, why didn't ever pay child support Or why were you always so mean to dad If there's.

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I mean, you can, you can live with me whenever you decide you want to live with me. Yea, um, yea, Dad, though, but the one thing, one argument mom made was that you weren't sending the child care stuff. And that she felt that if I didn't change my name, that I was cutting her off. You know what I mean You know. Like, I don't know which way to go. What is, what is she saying about the child care That you weren't sending it in. The government takes it. The government's been taking it for years. She should be running.

Out to the store and buying all three of you a very nice computer. Because I've paid her over I don't know, I'd have to look at the latest number. one hundred forty thousand dollars $140,000 Well, yea, but the government says that you have to keep doing that for your whole life. guess who told the children that adult concept The government has been taking out the maximum amount, they have been taking out thousands of dollars above what the court has ordered. Yea. well you still have to do what they say.

How to CoParent with a Narcissistic Parent After Divorce Wendy Behary, LCSW

Coparenting is a really hard job, and when you are coparenting with a narcissist it just ups the ante. And then living separately from that narcissist, either by way of separation or divorce, and sharing the responsibility for caring for this child becomes an even greater challenge, because you are not there to supervise. You are not there to step in. You are not there to do the quick fix. When the child needs something repaired emotionally because the narcissistic parent has said something absolutely hurtful or critical or too demanding.

For the child. So there is a lot of repair work that has to happen. And the burden really does fall on the nonnarcissistic parent to be sure to be issuing messages that will counteract the effects of the narcissistic parent those that might be too harsh, too critical, those that forget to notice the loveliness of the child just being who they are, that forget about their own innate wonderfulness and specialness. And so the nonnarcissistic parent has to carry that load of making sure that the language is tailored to try to overcome and accommodate.

What is happening with the narcissistic parent. One of the privileges of living apart from the narcissistic partner is that you have a little bit more of leverage and more room permission actually to help your child to appreciate that 'you know, I think your dad loves you very much. I don't think he means to do what he does. But it's not OK, and it really is his problem or your mom's problem. It is her problem. It's not about you. I know that's hard because your dad means so much to you and everything he says really.

Difficult Personalities in a Child Custody Case Los Angeles Child Custody Attorney David Pisarra

Hey Guys David Pisarra here with MensFamilyLaw. Have you got a personality disordered spouse Is that what we're dealing with in a a child custody case Listen up and let's see what you've got. There's three main problem personality types we deal with in divorce and child custody cases. There's a manicdepressive and they kinda have an up down problem. they go from being really happy to really sad to really happy to really sad. They're not that big of a deal when it comes to child custody, then we've got the narcissistic. the narcissistic.

Personality is somebody who its all about them. No matter what you're doing it's about how it affects them. No matter what you're saying, it's how they look. No matter what you're doing, it's how they're going to feel. The third most dangerous one that we deal with is the borderline personality. This is somebody that looks at you and in the beginning part of your relationship you probably were the prince charming, you probably were the best thing that ever happened. The most wonderful boyfriend, the most fantastic husband. and.

Along came a child and the focus shifted and when the focus shifted, you suddenly became worthless, useless, the worst thing ever, horrible, the meanest, most inconsiderate, thoughtless, terrible, negligent, incompetent parent of all time. That's the borderline personality. You're going from one extreme to the other. You go from Oh My God you're the best thing ever to, horrible horrendous, terrible parent. The problem that we deal with is, Narcissistic and Borderline personalities can't really be cured. and they're very difficult to deal with when we get into court because they're usually very convincing. They're very.

Manipulative. They're very good at making the judge feel like Well they're just the most concerned parent ever, and you clearly are just a negligent human being. So when we're dealing with these as parties in a divorce, we frequently have to bring in a psychologist to try and explain what's going on and we put each side through some testing to figure out what's really going on and with the personalities and who's going to be the more stable and loving parent. And who's really telling the truth. Because oftentimes the really controlling.

Manipulative person is able to spin things so that it looks like you are the one that's wrong. Even though they are the ones who are at fault. I hope that gives you a sort of a brief overview of what we're dealing with here with the manic depressive personality, the narcissistic personality and the borderline. I'm not psychologist, so you probably gotta do some research on that but those are generally what we end up in family court, and those are the battles that we have to fight. If you've got other questions, you want to talk.

Parental alienation in children of separated parents

Presenter The psychologist, Javier Urra, who was the first defendant of children in the community of Madrid, talks about the issue of parental alienation in families of divorced or separated parents. How do children live in a situation of parental alienation at home And what are the consequences for them JAVIER The term parental alienation syndrome is very controversial, very controversial, because PAS does not appear in our textbooks of forensic psychiatry or clinical psychology, the DSM 4, C10. It doesn't appear, therefore. But what is real are the facts.

Facts are stubborn and day to day. And there are many men and women who use the child to go against the other, And he starts, then that is an alcoholic or abuse when you were little, or. What are the consequences for the child Decoupling. He may split from the father and mother or both of them. Then he is not forced to anything, he does not feel concerned and he does not feel called by the affection. Then we will have kids, with some psychotic features, remote, elevated emotional harshness.

Separation processes are being very misled. In Spain, we have changed the law so that the processes are very fast separation. But despite this, interest in the custody of economic goods, in seeing the child, in paying maintenance unless you give me child support, it Is generating an incalculable pain. In Spain, there are two issues that hit the young people which are alcohol probably the alcohol begins at thirteen, fourteen, boys and girls alike, almost. And, known, undisputed parental alienation syndrome, poor utilization, delegitimization of the other, the struggle of interests.

Badmouthing Your Ex Can Harm Your Children

Hello my name is Edward Weinstein. I've been practicing divorce and family law here in my hometown of East Brunswick, New Jersey for the past 20 years. In today's tutorial, I shall discuss a situation that affects far too many families, Parental Alienation of Children. So what is Parental Alienation Simply put, it is when one parent attempts to alienate a child's affections away from the other parent. Or in other words, when one parent badmouths the other parent in the presence of or directly to the child. There are severe consequences to Parental Alienation. First and most obviously, the.

Parent who is the target of the Parental Alienation is frustrated as they feel that their relationship with their child is slipping away. Even more importantly, this behavior is clearly not in the best interest of the child. Many of these children suddenly start acting out and misbehaving. Another red flag is when they suddenly start having trouble at school and with their studies. I have often argued in the New Jersey Family Court that Parental Alienation could lead to a child being emotionally and psychologically damaged into their adulthood. I then aggressively state, that in my book,.

A Narcissistic Mom Being Emotionally Hollow

But you know, Briana if you remember. I was always always there for you. You know through all of the trials and tribulations, you know I always stood by you. And uh, you know it just kind of seemed whenever you met Jason that's when. No, it's whenever Brittany and me didn't get along. He took you away from me. Whenever me and Brittany didn't get along there at the last bit, right before I was told to get the F out of that house and then I went on my own way. That's when everything went to hell. I know, I know. That's when everything.

Went to hell. It wasn't because of him. If he wouldn't have been there I don't know if I would even still be here. Huh. Because I was very depressed.You know for us that was kind of a bad time to you know. Brittany was telling you guys stuff that I was doing that she was the one doing, that I didn't do.you know and I learned about things that I got blamed for. Well we just shouldn't have put the two of you together so, we just thought we were doing what was affordable for us. It just wasn't the best thing for the two.

Of ya. You know After that happened, it just seemed after that, that it was all Brittany and it didn't matter about me anymore so it just. Oh that's not true, that's not true. It's just that you know, you just seemed not to want to have anything to do with us after that. No I just got to the point where I was graduating with my Bachelor's degree after I already got a nursing degree and I wasn't satisfied or proud of myself because you guys weren't. Hey , I was proud of you for your Nursing degree, you didn't have to go any.

Further for me. If you guys were then why didn't you, why didn't you even take a picture of me Hey, were so proud of you it was unbelievable. You have all kinds of pictures of Brittany, you have pictures.Dad said he would never go on a plane and he went on a plane for Brittany to New York. You guys went on all kinds of trips. And all these things and you guys left me out. Hey, Dad went on a plane with me to California to look at equipment back in the.

1990's, that was the first time he had ever flown. Hey.All these things I got left out on.Hey, Lets tell you something. Do you remember that time. You guys went to New York with Brittany like three different times. Brittany went to L.A. a couple times and then you guys went to Florida, I mean I know about all these things I can pull it out, I've got it written down. I was pretty, pretty, shaken up by all of it. Because I knew that I was not the daughter that you cared. No. You only cared about Brittany. Brittany was your little perfect.

Angel. If you wanna sit down and talk about all this, we never went to uh, LA with her. No, Brittany did. Well that's. She went twice. She went to Chicago. She went to LA twice. She went to New York, freaking four times. Well, one was with Kyle and one was with somebody else. I can't remember who she went to Chicago with. Oh, she took the train there with some friends. But see, how can Brittany do all that That's why Brittany says I always bring it up about money, it's not that I am always bringing up about money.

parental alienation 2 they will decide at 18,YouDontCare about kids,harm HYSTERIA,DONT MESS w me

F I will not trust you people with my children. When they are 18, they will decide what they will do. you tried to put my children into an environment of harm. you tried to put my children into harm I will protect those children. they will be emotionally safe, they will be physically safe f and no contact until you you owe me a huge apology! you owe those kids an apology. what do you want ! you want to pretend that you care about those kids. a I'd like to have a friendly conversation f you do not care about those kids,.

You do not care about those children! I'll tell you who loves those children! I do! you're a bunch of hypocrites. you want a polite conversation, quit calling my home! do you have any idea what's going on now a no I don't f you have no clue what's going on a I don't have any clue because I can't talk to your children f no, ask your brother f you have no clue, you have no clue what's gone on, you're just clueless a I called to talk to your children.

F My children will not be placed into any harm. And you tried to put them into an environment of harm. And you have no legal right. a I sent them letters and I write to them. I do not. harm I do not. harm f I give them your letters. you know what. Don't call my home. Don't call my home. f HUNG UP phone a What harm would it do to talk to the children on a phone f I have told you not to call my home, now this is twice,.

F the children have said that they don't want to talk to you. and I'm asking you what is the location of a have them tell me that whether they want to talk f you're harassing me now, you're going onto harassment, and DON'T MESS WITH ME! don't call my home. twice, twice a you mentioned before that I would harm the children. and I thought about it. I don't have any reason to think that I have harmed them. Could you tell me what you meant by that f HUNG UP phone.

parental alienation 3 female Brainwashing Children with Lies as Reason to abandon their Birthnames

F I mean, you can, you can live with me whenever you decide you want to live with me. s Yea, um, yea, Dad, though, but the one thing, one argument mom made was that you weren't sending the child care stuff. s And that she felt that if I didn't change my name, that I was cutting her off. You know what I mean You know. Like, I don't know which way to go. f What is, what is she saying about the child care s That you weren't sending it in.

F The government takes it. The government's been taking it for years. She should be running out to the store and buying all three of you a very nice computer. f Because I've paid her over I don't know, I'd have to look at the latest number. f one hundred forty thousand dollars s Well, yea, but the government says that you have to keep doing that for your whole life. guess who told the children that adult concept f The government has been taking out the maximum amount, they have been taking out.

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